What about a shade of green!!

Pink is for girls and blue is for boys...o.k..!
I'll go with the green then.
We made those kind of rules...we did...and if we'd see a man walking down the street in a pink t-shirt we would go..euuh.
Also,if we saw a girl wearing blue all the time we'd call her ..boyesh..
what's the point??
My point is not to reconsider the colour palette..no, but to reconsider what we set and then take for granted and use to judge others.
We must accept the differant and call it special..not weired..
We must learn to measure things through the scale of allah not by our scale..
humans differ from country to country and within the same country..cause people tend to make a special set of rules when they are grouped within the same circumstances..
the only valid set of rules that could succeed anywhere are the rules that allah made for humankind cause his rules doesn't hurt anyone ..anywhere;but on the contrary..it makes people more nobel and human..
remember how the arab's island was like befor islam...harsh,statue worshippers,sinfull and stone hearted ,that they used to bury their girls alive..those are the same people that later after islam wre kind,muslims,virtuousand had allah's bless in their lives..
Other than allah's way..is no way..
Other than the rules of alsunnah ..are no rules..
Any rule,idea,theory,manner or discovery made by a human..is open for discussion and can be proven wrong..
We have been taught all our lives(unfortunatly)that it's wrong to walk half naked in the street..but at the same time it's o'k to be almost naked on the beach....hello!!
While socities that don't live as ridiculously open..struggel now to take off their veils in order to be liberated...
We can't be that twisted..and if we are jenuine beleivers in allah..we must trust his religion..we must stop being selective when it comes to obligations..
It's not about pink or blue..it's all about who are you...who?

statements..bigger than life

Oh,i'm feeling dizzy..
earlier today,i stumbelled into a strange blog..i thought it was to gather all egyptian blogs..so i jumped into joining the list..but two minutes after that, i had the regrett of my life when i read two or three lines from the blog's master..i was in a terrified,painfull state that i couldn't even click it off..
somepeople like my self..thank allah..are so into calling for the true and the good in our lives,that we panic when we see such uglyness..
i read every curse and bad name calling known to man or even devils..i read awfull ideas and statements..statements that seem bigger than life and that totally antireligious,antiprinciple and anti anything that could achieve any thing decent for mankind..
they protest everything and almost anything..totaly lost,with no self identity,no true realization of true freedom or rights..politicaly corrupted..not because they protest..no ..may be they are right in some issues..but because they protest anything..anything but the tailored lust they made for themselves..
i was fighting tears as i read about their lost self and their dellusional thoughts..
i faught the tears cause one day i was almost like them..and i say almost, cause i never dared to disrespect religion..i have an idea about thinking of bieng differant ,to stand out..seeking attention ,asking everybody to agree with your magnificant thoughts..
doing everything against the draft just because there is a draft..to may be ease the pain inside,to may be fill the void..years after i realized the truth..thank allah..i knew myself..who am i?and why was i created?only then i found the comfort of finding the way, after totaly being lost and traumatized..only then i started to taste freedom and peace..there where no struggel..not anymore..and i started to go into deep sleeps,something i didn't experience for years..i started to stop looking around all the time for verifecation..i'm not perfect but i'm a whole lot better now..reborn..reshaped..and refined.
that is why my heart aches for these people..i see what they're dragging themslves into..and i realy want them to just want to be saved from the pit they are in..ya raaaab..
unfortunatly..some poor people buy the shiny slogans and seem to they found the lost cause in these people's ideas.
cause they cover their sick point of view with statments like ..freedom and democracy..but in a chaoetic ,corrupted way..
and no..i don't think for a second that these bloggers intend to do that..i think it's an unconcious process ..only because they don't know better..they were given the ways and support to do so ..
i thought of commenting on their blog..but i was so disgusted to be any part of that pit hole..at the same time i realy feel sorry for them and i realy pray that they'd be guided and taught..
i realy hope they would see the truth in a nice way..not after sever tests..the kind of circumstances that allah put us through to make us know better and want to aproach the light..and reach out.
Allah is great..يهدى من يشاء ..may allah bless them into his mercy..
i would like to invite them into trying to approach the truth in the way allah made for the humans he created..in the world he created..with open minds ready to fully understand..and if although they are not convinced..they're free..totaly to believe or dis believe..at the end..the truth will be revealed and each will know wether he made the right choice or not..
We will sure know but i hope for some of us that it won't be too late..
considering me....after refocussing..it's not all dark...there's the light clear and strong.
there's hope..if we only we feel that we're responsible to make the call .
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Q..

The big question that we all need to ask ourselves is...
Who am i ?and,why am i here??

We often tend to be distracted by other people or situations and we could live our lives and die without knowing the answer to this question..

As for knowing who you are ,means accepting your own self with your own values
and never allowing someone else to dectate the way you should be..
cause when people tend to tell you:oh, you're so kind..you won't survive..
Or tell you:you're so strong..no one will love you..
If you believe them and try to change you'll be pretending to be someone other than you..you'll keep doing that to the point that you'll stop realizing who you realy are..
When we get hurt by anyone ..we must realize that they have a problem..they have something wrong inside that allows them to hurt...
but instead..we tend to beleive that we're worthless..that we deserve what happened to us(unconciously)..so we greive..deprive ourselves..or,overeat..or oversleep or even do something stupid to hurt ourselves...
Instead we should know who we are..rise above it and think positivly that we'll learn from the mistake something that will make us stronger and wiser..
and don't concentrate with judgemental people..
try to be honest with yourself..

As for why are we here...allah (swt)made the answer for that question realy easy for us...it's a setteled matter..we are here to know allah and maintain his religion in our lives and the world..
and by that i don't only mean to beleive and worship ..no..
i mean to live it in our lives and most importantly in our hearts...
Allah,the generous gave us the ultimate gift..the way to live..the sunnah..
It's like a cataloge..but the most miraculous detailed,complete and wonderfull cataloge..in which we could maintain everything that pleases allah within our daily lives..our encounters..relations and intentional aspects of life..

If we put the answer of the question right infront of our eyes..we will never forget or live to regret..
If we know our destination..we will never get lost.

I remember..!

I remember..the first feeling i had when i held my baby..
It was overwhelmingly strange..for a minute i didn't believe what was going on..was that my baby..i asked myself..
i only saw that in movies..so, scenes from movies kept going in my mind..hesitant..not knowing what to do and also making a huge effort not to show my confusion..sob7an allah..it was my little miracle..
suddenly i felt like crying..i burst into tears ..i felt a huge sense of giving and loving..suddenly i realized why was i made a female..why do i live..what is my goal..i filled my eyes with his look..his tiny little hands..his weakness broke my heart..so fragil, so dependent..grasping my finger rather firmly..i felt the love and the tenderness that i never felt towards any one or any thing before..
he charmed me with his unconditional love..his need..
it was i.. who was born again..!
thank allah the great for his gift..and may allah guid me and my kids to living islam just like mohamad sala allah 3alayhe wa salam taught us..
ameeen.

motivation..and expectation.

When we go through anything hard or challenging in life we automaticaly search for the understanding and support of our loved ones..
we expect certain answers for our questions..
We want to see specific reactions for our actions..
We make scenarios in our minds..
We expect to get the support that we need all the time..we want applause after every decision..
And i think that if we control our expectations and agree that people too have the right and the freedom to think and apreciate things in thier own special way..
if we manage to deal with that wisely..regardless of our own specifications.. then we will be able to maintain a high self esteem and that will constantly motivate us..and will set our spirits free..
If others offer their support we must apreciate it and take advantage of it..if they did not..we must refer to our inner trust..
we must beleive that allah the generous would give from his kindness to those who ask him..the creator..

How to earn a virtue..?

To earn a virtue such as honesty,faithfullness and patiance;you must keep in mind three main points..
plea: you must plea and pray that this virtue may come into your heart..you must believe that we can't do anything without allah's permission and help.
listen: you must listen to wise people who talk about this virtue..to know more..to realize.
Talk: talking about it will make you believe it's importance in your life..will help you and others maintain the virtue..
Our heart has entarnces..hearing,seeing,talking and thinking.. Remember..plea,listen and talk.
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I think that the only dream that teenagers have in common..is being alone on a deserted island..and only the sea as their companion..true??
we need to choose who accompanies us along the way..who has our goals and dreams..and most importantly..our values..
only then life on our grounds will be precious..

The true echo..

The most true echo we would ever experience..
Is the echo of the strong yet smooth inner voice,that tell us that we are not fully satisfied in life..something is still missing.
If we have every thing working for us just fine..we still get that echo right in the middel of any happy moments..even among friends and loved ones.
some times we allow ourselves to hear it..and some times we choose to neglect it..and put it aside.
We neglect it cause we think that allowing ourselves to hear it may spoil the nice moment we're in..
Unfortunatly delaying it makes it a thorn in the heart..
But truely hearing it will lead us to the ultimate fullfillness..the happiness that i can't describe...the joy of your soul that you can only taste to know..
the relief of the heart..no problem can capture your heart if you surrender and follow the echo...this echo..is the sound of your soul that want and need the presence of faith in your heart..having allah as your companion..your guide..having true faith as your salvation from the limited pleasures that you think is enough..
Faith is the happiness..the ultimate satisfaction..
surrender and taste it for your self.

The rose syndrom..!

Do we have anything in common with this rose..?

Are we alike in any way..?

Do we share the..scent..the softness..the use.?

do we share the pleasure it gives..the hope..?

we sure can share all of these wonderfull things..but we need what makes us whole again..what makes us apreciate the good in life.

We need faith..

faith would make all the beauty of a rose glow in you..

faith is the true fragrance of life.

For someone to influence you..is as if you're becoming the echo of somebody else's music..