Q..

The big question that we all need to ask ourselves is...
Who am i ?and,why am i here??

We often tend to be distracted by other people or situations and we could live our lives and die without knowing the answer to this question..

As for knowing who you are ,means accepting your own self with your own values
and never allowing someone else to dectate the way you should be..
cause when people tend to tell you:oh, you're so kind..you won't survive..
Or tell you:you're so strong..no one will love you..
If you believe them and try to change you'll be pretending to be someone other than you..you'll keep doing that to the point that you'll stop realizing who you realy are..
When we get hurt by anyone ..we must realize that they have a problem..they have something wrong inside that allows them to hurt...
but instead..we tend to beleive that we're worthless..that we deserve what happened to us(unconciously)..so we greive..deprive ourselves..or,overeat..or oversleep or even do something stupid to hurt ourselves...
Instead we should know who we are..rise above it and think positivly that we'll learn from the mistake something that will make us stronger and wiser..
and don't concentrate with judgemental people..
try to be honest with yourself..

As for why are we here...allah (swt)made the answer for that question realy easy for us...it's a setteled matter..we are here to know allah and maintain his religion in our lives and the world..
and by that i don't only mean to beleive and worship ..no..
i mean to live it in our lives and most importantly in our hearts...
Allah,the generous gave us the ultimate gift..the way to live..the sunnah..
It's like a cataloge..but the most miraculous detailed,complete and wonderfull cataloge..in which we could maintain everything that pleases allah within our daily lives..our encounters..relations and intentional aspects of life..

If we put the answer of the question right infront of our eyes..we will never forget or live to regret..
If we know our destination..we will never get lost.